Experts and legal professionals consistently identify as the most devastating mistake divorcing people make. This often manifests as "revenge litigation"—prolonging court battles to punish a spouse—which frequently leads to financial ruin and long-term emotional trauma. 1. The Core Mistake: Emotional Decision-Making

Divorce is often described as a legal and financial transaction occurring during an emotional crisis. When emotions like anger or betrayal take the lead, they cloud judgment and lead to several destructive sub-mistakes: